Moyosoluwa Talk

Except you have decided to make a relationship in your life work as a guy, never use this tips and if you do when you clearly know you're not ready, well remember the law of karma and if you don't know what karma says? You've not even started. Welcome to my blog once again, if you're just joining in, welcome! If you're a regular, welcome. Those of you that are familiar with my blog would realize I talk about issues based on experience and prompted to write when such issues reoccur. Well, you might wonder how enjoying a low budget relationship issue is attached to me, it's not my fault. Let's just say God has brought a few broke guys my way which were not just broke alone but also has broke mentality that has made them stagnant even in whatever they do. Although, many rich guys may also not know the exact things to do to spice up a relationship but if he is not doing them, your red flag is clear as a Woman.          Before the tips come along I...

My name is Moyosoluwa Olabode, recent graduate of Obafemi Awolowo University,Ile-Ife Osun state,Nigeria. I am not a therapist or a psychologist but I am who I am due to my experiences and the extent I have been able to absorb results, lesson learned and taught from life experiences. So, read with almost faith. Often times, we repeat mistakes not because we didn't learn but because we didn't look at some factors of causation in those mistakes. To be able to read this post, you must firstly learn how to be the third judge in any matter at all, yourself, your partner and a second reflection of you not controlled by your emotions or the situation,that can to some extent scrutinize the matter without bias. It is possible. Now general qualities of those eligible for relationship. Note: there are still many others but these are the most important considering the parts of human beings that do not like to communicate through issues. Number 1: YOUR ABILITY TO REFLECT Y...

" the quality or character of a particular person or thing that distinguishes them from others of the same kind, especially when strongly marked" Have you asked yourself what makes you, You? Lot of us have been through experiences which mostly end result is pain that has molded how we think and see people, our foresight has fallen short of possible results ahead because of these experiences of pain and regrets sometimes. When we finally get it out of our system we might have forgotten where exactly we stopped living our lives and what exactly we did or were doing that made us, Us. That is what I am here to talk about.           Growing up(still growing) for some of you that know my story will know I was baptized with depression for what ever reason I had but luckily and fortunately I happen to be sensitive to things people rarely say but they're going through them,especially a struggle. Maybe because I have been there.  I noticed after the ...

The moment I knew I was alone was the moment my phones stopped ringing early in the mornings and maybe the whole day, the one high esteemed had gone and it was an experience my life had to morn for a long time. There are times in our lives we had these people, there are times we don't. So what is companionship really? In my own words;  "companionship is an ability. An ability to commune with the deepest part of yourself,finding your individuality and dwelling in comfort with your presence, which someday can be shared with a related soul"-Moyosoluwa. Many of us mistake companionship for relationship and most times love, from third party. If you're in this category, you'll constantly allow the ones that can not relate with your soul hurt you more than you can imagine. I meet an average of 20 to 30 ladies per day and about 10 to 15 men per day and these is one of the things that bothers them, well the men do no say it directly but it all boils down to ...

You know you can't take it no more, I wouldn't say you should. You can never find love, I wouldn't say you can not. You can say there's no hope, but who I'm I to affirm that,what if... Everyone got a story, a gist, a long time discussion even a presentation that fully describes there journey of pain with different people in this cruel world but I woke one day and said to myself, I need a success story too(which mean others have attained it too), I know I need love, I know I want to love and I'll do it. From my experience of two brutal failed relationships let say 10years all together, I'm supposed to retire and just tell myself I'm done! This is not an inspirational articule, at least not yet. No. It's to tell you to try. I'm still trying. I don't want to know your pain but everyone even those that hurt you are looking forward to seeing your happy ending, why not let Bella Naija carry our own love story in it's source from ...

My name is Moyosoluwa and I am a foodie! Lol. Food is actually one of the things that's keeping me alive, obviously we all need food to survive but there are few meals that penetrates into your soul and spirit and you come alive. These meals helps you relax, it helps you remember one of the things to live for, it strengths your taste skills and makes you kill boredom in the kitchen. I don't know if this recipe already does exit but I came up with this meal myself. Now to the ingredients for the plantain sauce, you'll need the following; Ripe plantain(chopped) Stock fish(Eja kika) Grounded pepper Locust beans Onion Curry & thyme Tomato paste Chopped carrots Few green pepper to enhance the colour Palm oil Salt & maggi Steps; put up a fine pot(I love to prepare special meals with uniquely looking pots, it boosts my moral) on your cooking gas, pour your desired oil and wait to bleach, add your chopped onion,locust beans and curry & thyme. In a...