HOW TO ENJOY A RELATIONSHIP ON A LOW BUDGET

Except you have decided to make a relationship in your life work as a guy, never use this tips and if you do when you clearly know you're not ready, well remember the law of karma and if you don't know what karma says? You've not even started.

Welcome to my blog once again, if you're just joining in, welcome! If you're a regular, welcome. Those of you that are familiar with my blog would realize I talk about issues based on experience and prompted to write when such issues reoccur.

Well, you might wonder how enjoying a low budget relationship issue is attached to me, it's not my fault. Let's just say God has brought a few broke guys my way which were not just broke alone but also has broke mentality that has made them stagnant even in whatever they do. Although, many rich guys may also not know the exact things to do to spice up a relationship but if he is not doing them, your red flag is clear as a Woman.

         Before the tips come along I want to address the guys, the Men, the liquid metals in our midst, as I have said before if you're not serious back off! But if you're just a sincere guy, not earning much or earning a few or a lot but willing to find love and keep it, well I pray from my heart GOD BLESS YOU!!! 

Now how to enjoy your relationship on a low budget, you need to understand something first. Low budget does not necessarily mean low quality, low budget is simply putting it according to a saying "cut your damn coat according to your damn size", now we move. So as a lady if you're not seeing the following it might be a red flag.

First of all, you need to TRY! As a man you must be willing to try, try anything good in your capacity, try new things, explore. Your ability to try shows you're flexible,shows you're open minded, shows you can be taught, shows your effort, shows you CARE! I know, it might be a dumb 23 year old giving you some advice but this dumb 23 year old advice would or might change your life for good! There's a old saying " there is no harm in trying" and I say there are greater harm in not trying at all. I just read your mind, you just said try what? Right? Well I meant trying a relationship in the first place. If you're already in a relationship,congratulations but if you think that river is too deep well you might not know the dept. Your willingness to try is what you need first.

Secondly, take your time to discover what she likes or simply just ask but it would be more romantic to discover. You need to know, to enable you draw out your plan, remember you're broke or on a budget? Well as a graduate of Economics I know better on planning especially on low budget and even on high or moderate budget. For instance, you've got a babe who loves the cinema what can you do? Remember you need to try! Create time for movie nights or movie weekends or movie days, invite a few quiet friends who would love to come, pick a movie or let her pick, buy snacks preferably the ones they sell at cinemas, POPCORN! And please off the lights. For instance, if you're a guy that lives in Magboro, beside mountain of fire camp Ogun state. You'd know those people there use calculator to calculate their electricity time, as a smart guy you can calculate the days that there would be electricity during the day especially the ones that falls on a Saturday or Sunday. 

In essence, what I'm trying to say is, try to recreate whatever she likes on a low budget but by being available and happy doing all you're doing recreating.

Thirdly, take a walk. This might sound weird but for ladies like me lazy doing exercises and are plus sized we need this. And if you're slim, perfect! You still need to be in shape. You're a low budget guy, so you know going out is out of the equation. Transport fare, buying food or snack etc can cost a lot if you're on a low budget but taking a walk with her will definitely save your cash. This can be done late evenings or after a visit, holding her hands will not be too bad and just stroll down to the bus stop if she came visiting and ordinarily knowing you can pick a bike. Hold her hands tight in the evening walking her down to her house if you both live close, try greet a few people you know and smile back at her and keep walking. Makes her feel you're confident and proud around her and you can't leave her, she understands you're not very rich but the fact that you walked her down will save you the guilt of not going out often.

On the fourth note, COOK! oh yes cook! Every girl loves a nice restaurant with candles, soft music on etc but you can't afford that so please cook! Even to the smallest concoction rice with lots of crayfish, diced carrots and egg and a bottle of coke would do. And just say you added your secret ingredient which is love will definitely put a smile on her face. Please remember, be creative even with your cooking. Try new recipes, she knows you can't cook better but looking all sexy in the kitchen trying to impress her would definitely fill her up even before the food is ready.

With the fifth and last point, PLAY GAMES. I usually say I hate playing ludo game because I usually play alone and I have never been in a relationship where the guy said let's play games of any kind. Sad right? Yes sad! You need to know one thing, girls like to play!!!! They are babies of every kind, they love to play different adventurous and creative games and as a low budget guy you know you can't afford the tush games, please get ludos, cards, play trow pillows, have group games with friends (I know a group game called LEMON LEMON! it's fun), be creative, think, think about stuff you've seen in movies or heard or simply just goggle. This would literally bring you together, help you test your partners IQ (yes! There are brain testing games like chess, monopoly etc), help you talk in between, help you know she's forgiving if she lost the game and all.

Some of you all would think it might not work, yet it might not work because you already said it in your mind. Many ladies out there are still game for the cheap trills, analyzing all the tips which one excludes you as a Man? None! It's just simply making yourself available despite the work stress, Lagos stress, traffic stress and all kind of stress in the world.

These are just few tips I can give out for now and trust me except she's not the one for you, when you try and put effort in these things you both will definitely be happy. I know what you've been thinking, what if she's not contented? Right! Many girls have been over exposed and foolish, yes many are foolish! They want men to spend what their fathers can not spend on them but clear your conscience by following the first tip which is trying! Try your best, be creative, show you care and if she's just as understanding as you pray she is, you'll be alright. Even as you leave your low budget standard to a high budget standard, these tips will still work for you only on a better, stress less level but if you're on a low budget? Guy work and pray!

Thank you so much for reading, let me know your thoughts, comment on other ways to enjoy your relationship on low budget, comment questions I'll duly respond and God bless you!

Moyosoluwa🌻