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WHAT UNFORGIVENESS IS DOING TO ME

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"Unforgiveness is like taking poison and expecting another person to die" As a young girl I have lot's of dreams,goals and I had lot's of happiness to go round. I didn't know the extent of such happiness I had, until I saw another girl exactly my own age when I used to be filled with so much happiness and joy, it's beautiful I tell you. After so many issue of life, love hunting and finding, I thought it was in a good place. I guess I was so happy I foolishly made some decisions I thought I was doing for love, I thought I was happy but dear Lord it looked like it. I thought I was safe but dear Lord,it looked like it. Now, I have become a venom filled with REGRETS, HATE, ANGER, SELF PITY, BADLUCK, BAD MOUTH, INSULTS,SHAME etc. That is all I see in me with no single drop of Love. The kind of pain I used to feel was more than my body could bare,most times after soiling in my tears in my bed I feel like the anger wants to tear my body apart, throw me far...

PSYCHOLOGY DIMENSION TO POVERTY

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" The ability to raise capital is not enough to get out of poverty- Moyosoluwa" What is poverty? According to Merriam Webster Dictionary: This is a state of being poor or a state where by an individual lacks something. I love how it's been illustrated, a state of being poor. Didn't say anything about money, capital, legal tender, or wealth. It simply what you lack that is very essential for your survival obviously. Do you think it's only money you need to survive? Read on. I have asked plenty of times these following questions; Why are Rich people not happy? Why are Poor people too not happy? Very true a rich man clearly has what a poor man doesn't but apparently funny life, the poor also has what the rich too doesn't have. So where's the balance? What is the generality? How do we come to know what we're actually lacking? The psychology behind poverty includes;POWERLESSNESS, VOICELESSNESS, DEPENDENCY, SHAME AND HUMILIATION et...

THE ONLY ONE I NEED

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I'm so lonely,nobody loves me. Since nobody loves me, no one would need me. Statistically speaking; the highest number of depressed people are young adult,from about age 16 to 21. They're adolescent who sees themselves as grown ups and one of the needs of young adults amongst many is "a sense of belonging". They want to feel love and to love,they cherish companionship even though they don't know what it takes. They want it at all cost. This need is biological, how? I'll tell us. When a child begins to grow and attains the stage of being an adolescent,there's a trigger in the side of the brain called the hypotalamus, this trigger then creates the release of sexual hormone in the boys it's called "androgen" and the girls its called "estrogen". It is the brain trigger and release of the sexual hormone that brings about the brain to make such person think he or she is alone. Why is it like that? I have asked God too...

PEOPLE FORGET

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People Forget I said if you'd be ever tired of beans, you said no. You said I was like your beans, you'll never be tired of me. But I forgot, people forget. It's not promises not kept but promises forgotten, people forget- Moyosoluwa

MY FRIEND IS A NARSCISSIT

"I have a friend, is he my friend? Is she in fact my friend? I think we're just roommates, class mates or school mates. Maybe it should remain like that." Maybe it should but maybe it should not. Remember, you're better off... Wait! Wait!! Don't be angry just yet. We would be enlightened soon enough.  What is a NARSCISSIT? According to Merriam Webster dictionary, it was simply put as "Egoism, Egocentrism" Being Egocentric is too much care for ones self and not about other people. I hope I have established the picture of being NARSCISSIT to you, now to business.  It's actually not the fault of either your egocentric friend or you but as you are getting to know Moyosoluwa, she'll explain using her life experience, yes my life experience.  I have a friend in school, he is a guy. Met him through a friend in part one, we were quite close and we do almost all academics work together until he changed. He just changed. It was drastic...

OFFENDED SOULS

OFFENDED SOULS THEY'RE THE WORSE TO HURT, THE WORSE TO SHARE SECRETS AND ALSO TELL LIFE EXPERIENCES. THEY'RE ALWAYS ANGRY IN THEIR SPIRIT BUT YOU'LL NEVER KNOW BECAUSE THEY CAN STILL EMOTIONALLY KISS YOU. THEY WAIT UNTIL YOU'RE TRAPPED BY YOUR OWN DOING- Moyosoluwa

THE BACKGROUND OF LOVE YOUR HEARTBREAKER HAD

I will not forgive him, I will not forgive her. She promised me alot, He promised me alot. I have loved but this son and daughter of a b***h threw my love away, I am so unfortunate to have loved this person. O yes you're unfortunate to have loved that person but yet fortunate you did because you're going to learn something out of that today. Without dogging around, lets see a scenario. Imagine! Just imagine!  Imagine a boy who was abandoned by his mum when he was a little child, while still suckling. He grew up knowing different faces, from his grandma, to his aunties and his uncles to neighbors etc. Just imagine and just imagine.  Life must have been a tough one for him, he continued and grew up as a man.  Pause! Remember he was abandoned by his mother, first hate from questions like; why was I abandoned? Did she hate me? Or I wasn't good enough? With all that, it is registered in his brain ANYONE CAN LEAVE AND HE CAN SURVIVE WITHOUT ANYONE . Remember, he gre...