MY FRIEND IS A NARSCISSIT

"I have a friend, is he my friend? Is she in fact my friend? I think we're just roommates, class mates or school mates. Maybe it should remain like that."

Maybe it should but maybe it should not. Remember, you're better off... Wait! Wait!! Don't be angry just yet. We would be enlightened soon enough. 

What is a NARSCISSIT?
According to Merriam Webster dictionary, it was simply put as "Egoism, Egocentrism"
Being Egocentric is too much care for ones self and not about other people.
I hope I have established the picture of being NARSCISSIT to you, now to business. 

It's actually not the fault of either your egocentric friend or you but as you are getting to know Moyosoluwa, she'll explain using her life experience, yes my life experience. 
I have a friend in school, he is a guy. Met him through a friend in part one, we were quite close and we do almost all academics work together until he changed. He just changed. It was drastic. It was like I wasn't paying attention to him before but all those behaviors were just so irritating and I couldn't bare it so I avoided him but I think he avoided me first. 
It went on for a while until we reconnected again in part three and we started talking again, I let go of my anger and asked him what the matter was. He explained  about issues from home, his person issues, his personal beef for his mother and how he has hated everything around him that made him develop such narscissit globe around him. 

Don't think I am dogmatic or slow in thinking, maybe I am alittle but I have gotten to understand with my little years God has made me to live, I have gotten to know and I am getting to know the earlier you understand people for what they have been through and what they're still going through you'd understand to some extent why people misbehave. 
I'm not justifying all narscissits but just like my friend who seem to over do so many things and seemed like he talked without thinking about others wasn't actually like that. He wasn't brought up to learn how to think about others but how to survive by himself alone. 

My narscissit friend which is also a friend to another narscissit made me clearly understand how they think, see things and imagine things to be. They're really a rare special kind of human creature who have perfect picture of themselves, in fact they're grievously so self-centered but in true intentions it's not to hurt anyone but even with all their great quality some of them can be very dangerous. 
  
With this note, I'll stop here. 
Moyosoluwa 


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