THE COMPANIONSHIP I NEED

The moment I knew I was alone was the moment my phones stopped ringing early in the mornings and maybe the whole day, the one high esteemed had gone and it was an experience my life had to morn for a long time.

There are times in our lives we had these people, there are times we don't. So what is companionship really?

In my own words; 

"companionship is an ability. An ability to commune with the deepest part of yourself,finding your individuality and dwelling in comfort with your presence, which someday can be shared with a related soul"-Moyosoluwa.

Many of us mistake companionship for relationship and most times love, from third party. If you're in this category, you'll constantly allow the ones that can not relate with your soul hurt you more than you can imagine. I meet an average of 20 to 30 ladies per day and about 10 to 15 men per day and these is one of the things that bothers them, well the men do no say it directly but it all boils down to the issue of being by yourself (not lonely) and still finding happiness.

I remember after my first break up, I became vulnerable to anything that looked like companionship but at the end of the day it ends up in a relationship. Give and take relationship. These men knew what I looked like, what I wanted was "Love" and so they took my body in exchange for these things I thought I was giving. Don't get me wrong... I wasn't raped! Not once!but it was the times I felt cheated because the only time I was taken out for lunch is for the bed in the evening, the only times I received clothes as gift is because there's a function that I had to become an hand bag and many more. It was give and take. I call it the companionship business-Anonymous.

I want you all that are in that position Anonymous used to be to wake up to the reality of individuality, the more you think you need someone which is not wrong if you're not becoming obsessed with it, that moment you loose yourself. Companionship is profitable when you've learned to own your space painlessly, love yourself effortlessly by doing those things you think another should do for you, invest in yourself and you'll see you're more than you think you're. The clearer picture of who you need would become clearer.

              Moyosoluwa👑