HAPPINESS ISN'T FREE UNTIL YOU'VE FOUND-INDIVIDUALITY

"the quality or character of a particular person or thing that distinguishes them from others of the same kind, especially when strongly marked"

Have you asked yourself what makes you, You?
Lot of us have been through experiences which mostly end result is pain that has molded how we think and see people, our foresight has fallen short of possible results ahead because of these experiences of pain and regrets sometimes. When we finally get it out of our system we might have forgotten where exactly we stopped living our lives and what exactly we did or were doing that made us, Us. That is what I am here to talk about.

          Growing up(still growing) for some of you that know my story will know I was baptized with depression for what ever reason I had but luckily and fortunately I happen to be sensitive to things people rarely say but they're going through them,especially a struggle. Maybe because I have been there. 

I noticed after the hate,the pain, feeling of revenge etc has left their hearts and soul, they can't remember the person they were before all of those experiences. I'm no psychologist but if we pay more attention to things the eyes can't speak and things the lips can see,we will try our best in that field. So, that is where individuality comes in.

Whatever the case may be, if you're reading this you must have forgiven, let go of your bitterness and ready to find yourself. Individuality to me is when you've gained the power to be yourself even in an inappropriate environment to be yourself.
         Bare me witness; do you see people post things like, happiness is free? Loving yourself is the bomb? Mostly in the real life in the absence of social media, they don't really know what it feels for happiness to be free or loving themselves. We just say it to make ourselves feel represented with what we think but really it's not sinking into our subconscious, it's not at all.

Thank God for insight and divine revelation, I'll be sharing how to find your individuality. Some people are very lucky,why? They do not have to go through the pattern of life to realize themselves. NOTE: THIS IS NOT A REDISCOVERY TALK BUT AN ACTUAL DISCOVERY OF ONE TRUE SELF.
  • ACCEPT YOUR WRONGS- except you're filled with pride, no one but God can not make mistakes.

  • FORGIVE YOURSELF- except you're stupid, if your creator can  forgive you why can't you.

  • ASK YOURSELF WHAT YOU REALLY WANT- you want to be happy? Be true to yourself, no one is judging you.

  • WRITE OUT THE MISTAKES YOU'VE MADE- and then burn it because if you pay attention to them you'll repeat them. know them but don't pay attention.

  • THINK DEEPLY WHAT YOU DO EFFORTLESSLY- what you do effortless will not psychologically drain you, it will help you direct your likes and addictions into a strength of talent.

  • BEGIN TO SEE PEOPLE FOR WHO THEY'RE- some are just natural pathological lairs, some are thieves,they'll steal from you no matter what. Some are wicked, they have no spirit of love and light in them. They'll always betray you. While some are kind, loving, sacrificing and generous. They'll do anything to see another happy. Once you recognize these people,start to relate based on how you can tolerate each category and not loose your sanity.

  • RECOGNIZE AND ACKNOWLEDGE YOU HAVE A CREATOR- He aligns your thoughts and your feelings. He rechecks your heart and gives you the ability to deal with whatever this life has to offer.
You can add to the list as you grow. Finding yourself is like exploring the universe. Did you know; there are other galaxies in the universe. O yes! Exploration made that discovery. There are lots of galaxies to discover in yourself, maybe multi universes are in that being called YOURSELF.
                          Moyosoluwa😍




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