THE BACKGROUND OF LOVE YOUR HEARTBREAKER HAD

I will not forgive him, I will not forgive her. She promised me alot, He promised me alot. I have loved but this son and daughter of a b***h threw my love away, I am so unfortunate to have loved this person.

O yes you're unfortunate to have loved that person but yet fortunate you did because you're going to learn something out of that today. Without dogging around, lets see a scenario.
Imagine! Just imagine! 
Imagine a boy who was abandoned by his mum when he was a little child, while still suckling. He grew up knowing different faces, from his grandma, to his aunties and his uncles to neighbors etc. Just imagine and just imagine. 
Life must have been a tough one for him, he continued and grew up as a man. 
Pause! Remember he was abandoned by his mother, first hate from questions like; why was I abandoned? Did she hate me? Or I wasn't good enough? With all that, it is registered in his brain ANYONE CAN LEAVE AND HE CAN SURVIVE WITHOUT ANYONE .
Remember, he grew up moving around;though humans are know to love dynamic experiences especially for men. So you can't expect such person to suddenly learn not to keep seeing new faces. With that it is registered in his brain; I NEED TO MOVE AROUND SO THAT PEOPLE WON'T FIND REASONS TO LEAVE ME, I'LL LEAVE THEM FIRST. 
Remember, he didn't grow up with a perfect family setting, that is the Father, Mother and children. So he doesn't know what commitments are to been a family, he only has ideas about how a family should be but doesn't have any idea how it's run. So he knows in his brain; I MUST HAVE A FAMILY BECAUSE I DON'T WANT MY CHILDREN ABANDONED LIKE I WAS. And so, he'll set up a family or try set up one just for the sake of setting up one without realizing the love he lacked must be put into it. 

If you followed our imaginative process, you'd be more calm now and say ohhh in realization or you might just say; it doesn't apply. Maybe it doesn't but the scenario is to make you understand that, the way people love depends on how they grew up. It takes God, extra-effort by the person and conscious awareness that he or she got to leave his past and focus on the future. 

Don't judge them, they themselves do not understand how to Love. Mirror there lives as yours and you'll see. Thank you 🤗
           Moyosoluwa 

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