THE ONLY ONE I NEED



I'm so lonely,nobody loves me.
Since nobody loves me, no one would need me.

Statistically speaking; the highest number of depressed people are young adult,from about age 16 to 21. They're adolescent who sees themselves as grown ups and one of the needs of young adults amongst many is "a sense of belonging". They want to feel love and to love,they cherish companionship even though they don't know what it takes. They want it at all cost.

This need is biological, how? I'll tell us.
When a child begins to grow and attains the stage of being an adolescent,there's a trigger in the side of the brain called the hypotalamus, this trigger then creates the release of sexual hormone in the boys it's called "androgen" and the girls its called "estrogen".

It is the brain trigger and release of the sexual hormone that brings about the brain to make such person think he or she is alone. Why is it like that? I have asked God too. That's why many fall into wrong hands, there childhood filled with stories of heart break and abuse and so you carry this ache till you're a full blown adult and might continue like that if conscious care isn't taken into place. 

Now, the only one I need. I might not know the exact thing you're going through but trust me in all the problems we will talking about,the clear solution to it is God. Aside religion and culture, I know there's this natural sense of an overall being over the earth. God! The creator, the king,the Lord of man kind. He created you and put those sexual hormone there, sure He'll know how to control them. He put those desires, sure He will know how to channel those desires.
How do you think I got healed so fast to come open a blog and now I'm talking to people, it's wisdom to draw strength from your creator, it's wisdom to display his own wisdom. That's my strength.

I know! I know! You want to sleep with someone,not just anybody but this particular girl or boy you want to spend the rest of your life with but you feel deep down not satisfied yet,why continue. Sexual activities with an opposite sex while not married takes alot from you and life may not give it back because this life wasn't designed to help you enjoy but to kill and destroy you. But God with His mighty hands is available to restore and keep strong.

What is Moyo saying bayii???
Say this words if you want to understand "God I believe you created and I know now that it's for a purpose. I believe in your son Jesus Christ, he came to die for me even when I didn't care. That's the greatest love I know because my heartbreaker(say his or her name) would never had done that but I thank you if that was ever done anyway but I believe it was done. I accept you as my Father,acknowledging now that you're my guide. Come into my life now"
Amen!!!

You'll begin to notice,tremendously that a change will be brought to your spirit and you'll receive peace in bits.

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Moyosoluwa

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